We were recently discussing the decrease in attention spans and decided, somewhat casually, to count the number of people entering the lunch hall while looking at their phones. It felt unnecessary, as almost everyone was glued to their mobile. This wasn’t the case in years past. Is this a generation gap? Mobile phone usage is just another addiction, like anything else, and it has nothing to do with the generational differences. Yet, the reasons people use their phones might signal a generation gap. Or maybe the very dependence on mobile devices in daily life reveals an underlying generational divide. We weren’t entirely conclusive.
Generation gaps are inevitable, as change is universal, and it is the adaptation to these changes that creates the gap. Differences in thought, social norms, and behaviour naturally emerge over time, creating a distinct divide between younger and older generations. When things like climate change can play a role in shaping these differences, it is clear some factors are beyond our control. Is the generation gap a problem? Yes, in some ways.
For example, when someone emphasises the importance of face-to-face conversation, but we feel we’ve accomplished the same through a few text messages, the generation gap becomes evident and a problem. If such differences are left to fester, they can go out of hand very fast.
Is there a solution? I don't think there exists one. At best, we can mitigate the effects by understanding and working through them. But who should be doing the understanding - the younger generation or the older one? The older generation certainly holds some advantages, especially in terms of experience and authority. If dad tells us not to use certain words at home because he finds them disrespectful, we might comply, although our friends think those words are perfectly fine. Of course, years later, we may happily pass those words on to our own kids, until they grow old enough to invent their own set of “cool” words.
While one generation holds the power of tradition and experience, the younger generation often has an intuitive grasp of new technologies. This ability allows them to drive innovations and paradigm shifts, which are essential for the present and future. If the older generation hesitates to listen to the younger one, they might unintentionally delay the much-needed progress. Clearly, both generations must adjust and understand each other to coexist harmoniously and successfully.
Every generation has its own uniqueness, and it’s crucial that we recognise and engage with it. Doing so helps us establish reference points. When conflicts arise, these reference points allow us to understand where others are coming from and view situations from their perspective. This is especially important when living with people from multiple generations - that is the case mostly.
Not everything comes and goes within a single generation. Some things require multiple generations to become established, and some values transcend time. Therefore, it is important to pass certain values on to the next generation, even if they do not immediately embrace them. Conversely, we must recognise the things that have become needless over time and discard them.
As individuals, what can we do? I believe that each person should live by a few core principles - values so essential that we would be willing to pay the price to uphold them. Keeping this list of principles short helps us adapt more easily to new things. A long list, however, can make us rigid, resistant to change, and prone to complaints. Whether we like it or not, we must be aware of generational nuances, acknowledge the contrasting behaviours and styles of different age groups, and move forward as best we can.
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