You argue. You don’t agree. You remain unchanged and so is your friend. Yet it doesn’t trouble your relationship. It is one of finest qualities of friendship. Here is one of the arguments I had with my friend. I took a photo of a very poor old man on my commute and was showing it to my friend during our coffee break. “Why don’t these people die rather than living like this?” - I commented. He smiled and told me this: We are not machines. Despite the struggles, life is so precious. It doesn’t really matter whether one is rich or poor or sick or healthy. There are no problems and solutions in life’s purest form. It is just how we see it. So, it is wrong in saying “living like this”. Life’s magics are so tempting to one to believe in God. Anyway, I don’t say it is God’s plan. If it is God’s plan then everything is and including all the cruel things. In deed, I accept that I can’t comprehend on how this God thing works. So instead of thinking it from God’s point, I would rather recommend
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