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A Girl, a Friend

Can men and women be friends? Is NO a comfortable answer for you? Let me put this to a more specific case. Can a girl and a boy at age between prime teenage and late twenties be friends? The science and psychology says it is not possible as sexual and romantic thoughts are unavoidable and the relationship takes different direction - could be on either side, positive or negative. If I have to answer this, I realise that first I should have proper understanding on what is meant by friend. I tried to answer few random questions to myself so that I can see more than what I already believe. Can a 10 years little girl meeting a 70 years man in a park everyday be friends? Can a thief in the jail be a friend to a police supervisor there? Can the father who is there with his daughter and care for her every needs be a friend to her? Can the psychiatrist listening to me patiently and understand me completely and gives me the best solution to any of my problems be a friend to me? Is the billio