Love or Friendship - which is unconditional? If “Love is blind” is acceptable to you than you might also OK with "love is unconditional". I guess it is not easy to say friendship is unconditional. Or is it? I thought I would say friendship is conditional but then a little deeper thinking on that led me nowhere though there was something that felt partly convincing. Friendship is just a phase and over the time it either creeps into the non existence or quietly transforms itself into a mere good relationship. Apart from the exceptional divine friendships, the rest gets a dot - the end.
There is no point in continuing a relationship which you just believed is friendship as it otherwise keep hurting you with no real worth. Put a dot and let it go. When your weaknesses are no longer accepted and brings disrespect, put a dot to that friendship and open the exit gates. Friendship can bear mistakes but it should never tolerate betrayal. Bring the dot in place when the promise of loyalty is broken.
There could be a time when you have to let your friendship go - without saying word as saying something would never let it go - for the goodness of the other person. The reason could be varied but your silent cries would ensure the happiness of the other person. Oh, that is the sweetest of dots. If your destiny asks for it, put a dot and take the blessings.
Greatest of friendships are those that lost the distinction between giving and sharing. You can surely celebrate the Friendship Day when it is the hardest for someone to think of putting a dot to your friendship.
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