I always believe that the Creator/creation of the world has the perfection in the design. The deepest 'nested ifs' of this design can never fail and nothing left for unexpected. Of course, though you can practice to be otherwise, either intentionally or unintentionally, I assume women are designed to have all the softer qualities and men to complement them. Adjusting with each other is the real challenge and I guess marriage provides the best of platforms for it. And that is why I believe the relation between husband and wife is the best of all relationships.
In fact, I would say, married life is a battle between the two to adjust with each others' nature, apart from fulfilling the custom followed by the society. The real beauty of this battle is to have no loser. It is a failure of married life when one feels defeated. In retrospect, I am sure these cute silly battles would take part in gladdening the heart.
To my belief, understanding and patience are the top two qualities men and women use to adjust with each other. Men are more of dealing with patience and women more of with understanding. I easily agree that this is very nature of the creation. The moment you make a woman void of things to understand something better, she would fight. And if you do things to test the patience of a man, he will confront you. Perhaps this is the very basic reason for man to look illusionary superior than his wife as she always expect things, gestures in any form, from him. Men don't do that much of experimentation, they play the tolerance game.
I think your wife would stay outside and watch your non-serious struggles to see how you respond to the situation before letting herself attach with the problem. She got the best of photographs of your sweet little embarrassing times in her memory. That is why I feel the Tamil movie 'Abiyum Naanum' is best enjoyed by your mother than your father and you (esp. daughter) as she can laugh right from the deep inside of her heart throughout the movie.
Kovil Pillai P.
In fact, I would say, married life is a battle between the two to adjust with each others' nature, apart from fulfilling the custom followed by the society. The real beauty of this battle is to have no loser. It is a failure of married life when one feels defeated. In retrospect, I am sure these cute silly battles would take part in gladdening the heart.
To my belief, understanding and patience are the top two qualities men and women use to adjust with each other. Men are more of dealing with patience and women more of with understanding. I easily agree that this is very nature of the creation. The moment you make a woman void of things to understand something better, she would fight. And if you do things to test the patience of a man, he will confront you. Perhaps this is the very basic reason for man to look illusionary superior than his wife as she always expect things, gestures in any form, from him. Men don't do that much of experimentation, they play the tolerance game.
I think your wife would stay outside and watch your non-serious struggles to see how you respond to the situation before letting herself attach with the problem. She got the best of photographs of your sweet little embarrassing times in her memory. That is why I feel the Tamil movie 'Abiyum Naanum' is best enjoyed by your mother than your father and you (esp. daughter) as she can laugh right from the deep inside of her heart throughout the movie.
Kovil Pillai P.
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